Why I don't Argue!                                       080717


The definition I am using is given by
Google: exchange or express diverging or opposite views,
typically in a heated or angry way.

Trolls and shills love to argue. They gain power from us by creating upset and pulling others into
the upset.

Inevitability, they make people wrong, insult and confuse. Trolls and shills have no resemblance to
intelligent people. Their purpose in engaging is not to communicate and share information.

Shills and trolls only seek to upset, confuse and make people stupid. They are evil as their
intention is evil.

Related articles:
Trolls
Instigators.


Certainty and Confidence


If you have certainty in your knowledge, you will have confidence in your ability to define what you
are saying and thinking.

Diverging or opposite views only come about with there is different or
missing information being evaluated.


When someone wants to argue with you, there can be three reasons for this.

The first and most common is they do not understand you, your position or your viewpoint. They
lack data or have false data.

The second is some vested personal reason for disagreeing with you like they have stock
dividends from #monsanto so they support #gmo toxic foods.

The third is they are insane, criminal, on drugs, #psychs, trolls, etc (all of this category are insane
to greater or lesser degree). It is difficult if not impossible to tell the difference between the second
and third reason.

Related article:
How to Get Cooperation
How To Correct
Trolls.


Handling Disagreements


The first type person can easily be handled by giving them correct true data. That handles any
disagreement and any desire to argue should vanish.

The first type is the vast majority of the people you will encounter. Even people of opposing
political parties normally lack true data about the situation. Most political parties lie and deceive
the very people that support them.

Political parties, real heavy political supporters, fall into the second or third type almost all the
time.

The second and third types usually can not be handled at all. The conflict in their universe is
hidden and will not resolve with truth. They don't want to know the truth.

This group runs about 20% of the population and they make 95% of the noise and upset. (The
95% is my estimate which I believe is pretty accurate. :-)

I freely give information to anyone desiring to learn or know the truth. I've written hundreds of
articles to communicate truth to others. Those articles can be found here:
Stories by Carl.

I have a firm policy about the second and third type people, I cut the communication line
immediately. On social networks, I block without response.

In person, I generally attempt to handle first. I can help anyone. The question for me to answer is,
am I willing to invest my time to handle someone trying to poison me or bite my arm off?

Very few people ever give me a hard time in person. I'm very good at handling people. I'm also
very sharp on spotting and getting rid of losers, downers, trouble makers etc.

Frankly, I do not have any negative people that I communicate with. None. My lines are clean.

Related article:
Negative or Positive.


How to Separate Out a Person with a Momentary Upset
from the Bad Guys


Anyone can get upset. When they are being upset, they are not logical and can not receive
information. When they are upset, they can't think and don't use logic.

If you can, just let them be until they pop out of it. I always suggest feeding people who are upset
as low blood sugar makes people very intolerant to about everything!

Often, letting them go and get a good night's sleep will tremendously help to resolve the upset.

Once rested and fed, resume the discussion.


Do Not Make Them Wrong!

It is difficult not to want to attack, to get back at them when they spit and scratch you. I
recommend, that you don't drop to their level.

Related article:
You Are Right.

Ask them questions to help you determine what they don't understand. Be patient and respectful,
kind of like you'd like them to treat you :-)

If they're sane, you should be able to resolve the upset or misunderstanding.

If it will not resolve, there is something blocking the resolution.

You might ask if someone is adding unknown information to the situation, a third party.

At some point you either need to cut your communication line with the person or bring in a
mediator to help resolve the situation.

If a mediator can't resolve it, then you're dealing with more than a momentary upset. You have
either a dishonest or insane person on your lines. At that point, you might consider walking away
and not looking back.


My Sanity and Future Survival

My sanity and future survival is much more important to me than keeping in communication with
someone who is non-survival.

If I don't cut them off 100%, I keep all communication to strictly social matters and never engage
them.

I'm not rude, I just don't extend my strength and goodness to support their vampire life.


If you need assistance, contact me.

Helping someone spot what condition(s) and what the solutions are to handle them is exactly what
I do in life.

Improving the conditions of others is my destination and purpose in life. I have no products that
you need to buy to get better. A little true knowledge can go a long way. I also do not ask that
you believe anything!

You are worthy of help as I know you have already helped many others and life probably owes
you!

Routinely I say #EverythinWill_B_OK!I believe that is true!

Also, “A person is only as valuable as he aids others in their games of survival!” Quoting myself :-)

Feel Free to Communicate with Me!

I am open to communication. Email me Carl @ carlwattsartist .com (remove spaces. Call me and
leave a message 818_400_2035.

Let me know if there's a subject you need to know more about, a question you'd like expanded on
or anything you'd like to see me write an article about. Happy to do so as I'm always looking for
new ideas. Contact me via this site by going
here!

"
GodFather Advice"
"Listen and Guide, Someone to."
"
Drifting or Driving"

©2017 Carl Watts www.carlwattsartist.com  080817 @Poet_Carl_Watts
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