What is Your Philosophy of Life?

I'm using the dictionary definition: a theory or attitude held by a person or organization that acts as
a guiding principle for behavior.

I see three methods of living with people. Each method is based on a belief of how people are
best handled.

I going to express these in terms of how you may have seen people be handled in the past.


Force!

Have you ever seen the police use force on someone?
Have you ever seen a bully intimidate someone?
Have you ever seen parents force a child to eat when the child was not hungry or did not like the
food?

Each of these examples were of using force to make someone do what was wanted against their
will. The self-determinism of the individual was ran over by the dominating person.

Hitler used this method on millions of people. He lead his country to the destruction of Europe and
his own nation.

Imprisoning people or even killing people via shooting or electric chairs all run over the self-
determinism. Similarly, the psych with his electroshock machines, surgery and drugs, all destroy
the self-determinism of people. Cages people, dead people, people made into vegetables lack
self-determinism.

Using force to change people is wrong. There are better ways.

However in troubled times, people are not always sane and sometime force must be used to
protect life and property. In those situations, the temporary use of force is justified.


A Less Obvious Method of Control.

What happens very often is a weak person seeks to control a stronger person. Strength of
personality or body strength both are seen as threatening to some weak people.

So these weak people seek to cut the stronger people down to a more easily controlled size or so
they think.

They make snide comments that belittle people. They make less of what people think is good or
beautiful. They lie continuously. They blame others for their problems. They tell you lies about
others such as no one likes you or everyone things you're not going to succeed.

Here are a couple good examples, “You look good...for your age” or “You're healthy for your age”.
Both these complementing statements are qualified that “you are old” and less than beautiful or
less handsome or less than healthy. Here's another slant, “people older than you have done it”
which implies that you are old. In these cases, the consideration of age is used negatively and you
are the target.

A little off the subject, but worth commenting on, people often use age negatively on themselves.
Every
time they use age to justify any weakness, they are putting themselves down. No one can
damage you like you yourself can.

Not having energy or strength, needing more sleep are very real. They are also a result of your
and my own actions. Don't use them to make others wrong or to invoke sympathy. It hurts
everyone when you do.

I've written several articles about people that put others down to make less of them. I have listed a
few below:
Constructive Criticism?  
Who Has the RIGHT to Insult You?
Invalidation.
Warmth of a Smile.
How to Know Who to Trust.
Shining the Light on Toxic People.


The Method I Use With Other People

I seek to raise their understanding of what I'm talking about or what I expect of them.

I give information to increase their reality about where I'm going, about what I'm trying to
accomplish.

I demonstrate ideas and concepts. I use simple examples to raise communication.

I try to express thing positively. I seek to avoid being angry and complaining about things (certainly
I'm not perfect about not complaining).

I drive for both
Uber and Lyft. I have many conversations. I do my best to follow the above to
obtain cooperation and understanding.

Where people are emotional or fixed in their ideas, I avoid the subjects and any conflicts that might
arise. I choose my battles and during a short ride is no place to engage a hostile person. I don't do
it.

There was a very elderly lady, Alice Herz-Sommer, who had gone through the German
Concentration Camps of WWII. I've taken a quote from her: “
I am looking for the nice things in life.
I know about the bad things, but I look only for the good things”  You can listen to her say this
here. There are many longer videos that are very moving that you can watch.


That is a good philosophy to apply to life!

Related articles:
How to Correct.
How to Get Cooperation.


The Way To Happiness.

I use The Way To Happiness as a moral guide in my day to day life. It is not a religious text. The
people I know that have read it, all agree with its precepts.

You might give it a try. You can watch the
videos on my site about them or go to their site. They
are very well done.

If you need gentle assistance, contact me. I am trained in resolving conflicts very successfully.

Helping someone spot what condition(s) and what the solutions are to handle them is exactly
what I do in life.

Improving the conditions of others is my destination and purpose in life. A little true knowledge can
go a long way. I do not ask that you believe anything!

Routinely I say #EverythinWill_B_OK!I believe that is true!

Also, “A person is only as valuable as he aids others in their games of survival!”
Quoting myself :-)

Feel Free to Communicate with Me!

I am open to communication. Email me Carl @ carlwattsartist .com (remove spaces. Call me and
leave a message 818_400_2035.

Let me know if there's a subject you need to know more about, a question you'd like expanded on
or anything you'd like to see me write an article about. Happy to do so as I'm always looking for
new ideas. Contact me via the above.

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